The Sacred Space of Love (Weekly Recovery Reflection)
Love without boundaries isn’t love—it’s self-abandonment.
Quote:
"You can’t hold someone close if you’ve lost your hold on yourself."
— Anonymous
My Thoughts:
Love boundaries are among the most tender and complex parts of recovery. Many of us once mistook love for enmeshment, or believed that saying "yes" was the only way to stay connected. But true love doesn’t require us to lose ourselves—it asks us to show up whole. Boundaries are not walls that keep others out; they are sacred lines that keep our hearts safe enough to remain open.
In healing, we learn that we can love others deeply and honor our own needs. We can say “no” and still be loving. We can walk away and still be kind. And we can set a limit not to punish someone, but to protect our peace. This week, we’re invited to see boundaries as an act of devotion—not just to ourselves, but to the clarity and longevity of our relationships.
Action for the Week:
Reflect on a relationship—past or present—where you struggled to hold boundaries. Ask yourself gently: “What was I afraid would happen if I set a limit?” Then journal what love might look like when it includes space, honesty, and self-respect. Consider practicing one small loving boundary this week—not as a test, but as a gift to yourself and the relationship.